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Torrhen Stark bends the knee to Aegon I Targaryen and his sisters, foreverafter becoming known as "the King Who Knelt"

"Joffrey, Renly, Robb Stark: they're all thieves. They'll bend the knee or I'll destroy them."
Stannis Baratheon[src]

"Bending the knee" is a formal act of submission to a king, queen or lord, a recognition of authority and a demonstration of fealty. It is common for surrendering parties to bend the knee after being defeated in a war or rebellion; in return, the ruling king or lord will usually treat those that bend the knee with leniency - e.g. Torrhen Stark, the King in the North, bent the knee to Aegon the Conqueror to spare the lives of the people of the North, and was named Lord Paramount of the North by Aegon in return.

Known acts of "bending the knee"

Masters of Meereen lionizing to their Valyrian conquerors.

The Boltons bend the knee to the Starks.

Nymeria surrounded by the Lords who bend their knees to her.

Harlen Tyrell surrenders Highgarden to Aegon I Targaryen.

Loren Lannister surrenders to Aegon.

Visenya Targaryen flies her dragon over the Eyrie and Ronnel Arryn surrenders in exchange for a ride on the beast.

  • During the Conquest, Visenya Targaryen rode Vhagar over the Bloody Gate and up to the Eyrie, where the child King Ronnel Arryn surrendered the Vale of Arryn in return for a ride on the dragon's back.
    • Lord Manfred Hightower of Oldtown bending his knee peacefully to Aegon I

      Before the Field of Fire, the High Septon of Oldtown affirmed that after seven days of praying The Crone had shown him that opposing the Targaryens would mean the destruction of Oldtown, so Manfred Hightower did not add his forces against Aegon, and when the Conqueror headed to the City lord Hightower freely opened his gates submitting to Aegon's authority.

Mace Tyrell kneels to Robert Baratheon and Eddard Stark.

Balon Greyjoy kneels to Robert Baratheon and Eddard Stark after his failed rebellion.


"After Aegon and his dragons destroyed the combined armies of the Reach and the Rock at the Field of Fire, King Torrhen Stark bent the knee and swore fealty to the Targaryen Dynasty in order to spare the destruction of Winterfell and its people. He was foreverafter known as the King Who Knelt. As a reward for his submission, Aegon named Torrhen Lord of Winterfell and Warden of the North."
Robb Stark[src]
"Seeing both the threat and opportunity the Targaryens represented, Loren wisely surrendered and aided Aegon in his further conquest of Westeros. The Lannisters were thus appointed Lords Paramount of the Westerlands and Wardens of the West, titles we hold to this day."
Tywin Lannister[src]
"Bend the knee my lord. Bend the knee & swear loyalty to my son, and we shall allow you to live out your days in the grey waste you call home."
Cersei Lannister to Eddard Stark[src]
"There sits the only King I mean to bend my knee to: the King in the North!"
Greatjon Umber to Robb Stark[src]
"When the lion finally showed his colors and purged King's Landing, we knew our cause was lost. My father chose the peaceful route and bent the knee to Robert, who heartily pardoned us."
Margaery Tyrell[src]
"I've always served thieves according to their deserts, as you well know, Ser Davos. Joffrey, Renly, Robb Stark, they're all thieves. They'll bend the knee or I'll destroy them. "
Stannis Baratheon to Davos Seaworth[src]
"You act as if I volunteered to go. You gave me away, if you remember! The day you bent the knee to Robert Baratheon, after he crushed you! Did you take what was yours then?!"
Theon Greyjoy to Balon Greyjoy[src]
"The last Gardener king lost his face along with his body, and his steward Harlen Tyrell promptly yielded Highgarden to Aegon. My grandmother swears that Harlen was like most of our men and grew up banging steel together too loudly for thought to penetrate, but luckily his wife had better sense. Whatever the case, in return for Harlan's show of sense Aegon proclaimed House Tyrell the Lords of the Reach and Wardens of the South, passing over all the other houses with better claims."
Margaery Tyrell[src]
"The people of the Vale say that Ser Artys Arryn, the Andal general, flew on the back of a giant falcon and slew the Griffin King on top of the tallest mountain. During Aegon's conquest, one of his sisters did the same, flying her dragon over the Bloody Gate and up to the Eyrie, the Arryn stronghold, and the Arryn boy king yielded the Vale in return for a ride on the beast."
Petyr Baelish[src]
"Aegon Targaryen landed to our south and, as had many before him liked the look of the Riverlands. My ancestor Edmyn Tully led the desertion of riverlords to his cause and was rewarded by getting to watch King Harren burn in his own tower. Unfortunately, that's not all Edmyn got. House Tully was named the Lords Paramount of the Trident, which means we had to keep in line all of those lords who hadn't governed themselves for thousands of years."
Brynden Tully[src]
"When Edmyn Tully demanded their allegiance as Aegon's new Lord Paramount of the Trident, the Freys bent the knee from their castle."
Catelyn Stark[src]
"After years of war, my ancestors gave up their barbaric practices and bent the knee to their new kings. Thus House Bolton became what we are today: loyal bannermen and staunch allies to the Starks... and the second greatest house in the North."
Roose Bolton[src]
Stannis: "It is customary to kneel when surrendering to a king."
Mance: "We do not kneel."
Stannis: "I'll have thousands of your men in chains by nightfall. I have nowhere to put them, I have nothing to feed them. I'm not here to slaughter beat dogs. Their fate depends on their king."
Mance: "All the same, we do not kneel."
Stannis Baratheon and Mance Rayder[src]
Ramsay Bolton: "Why would I trust a man who won't honor tradition?"
Smalljon Umber: "Your father honored tradition, knelt for Robb Stark, called him King of the North. Was Robb Stark right to trust your father?"
Ramsay Bolton: "Then it appears we're at a bit of an impasse."
Smalljon Umber: "Fuck kneeling and fuck oaths. I've got a gift for you."
Smalljon Umber refuses to bend the knee but still forges an alliance with Ramsay Bolton.[src]

In the books

In the A Song of Ice and Fire novels, bending the knee is mostly considered shameful and disgraceful, but there are exceptions: for instance, Balon Greyjoy believes there is no shame in yielding. He taught his daughter "No man has ever died from bending his knee. He who kneels may rise again, blade in hand. He who will not kneel stays dead, stiff legs and all". Balon has proved the truth of his own words when his first rebellion failed; he bent the knee to the Baratheons and Starks, only to rise again when Robert Baratheon and Eddard Stark were dead.

Asha follows her father's advice after she is defeated and captured by Stannis. She tells him "I yield, Your Grace. Do as you wish with me. I ask only that you spare my men". Stannis agrees to spare her and the very few survivors of her troops.