User blog comment:SummerandBran/Howland Reed/@comment-30471248-20161113044905/@comment-29740399-20161113171001

That's what I don't understand. He tells Howland, but not Cat? This could have really helped their marriage and it didn't fit Ned's charachter to cheat on her anyway. I know now that Howland had to pry Ned from his sister's dead body and all but @Reddyredcp is right. Whose else could it be? Arthur Dayne and Rhaegar's two other best kights were there instead of fighting at the Trident with him. But, yeah, I wonder the same thing about Cat.