Board Thread:TV Show Discussion/@comment-29740399-20161026202030

Do you think it would have been OK for Ned to have brought Jon home and

a) told her he was Lyanna's son but not who the father was.

b) since they didn't know each other well, waited a few years until Ned really knew Cat then told him Jon was Lyanna's son

c) told her when she was know to be trustworthy that Jon was Lyanna and Rhaegar's son?

I kinda feel like Catelyn got shafted. Here's this boy she's forced to look at everyday and cannot help but hate him. I think that after a few years Ned should have pulled her aside, sworn her to utmost secrecy and told him that Jon was Lyanna's son, not his. And no one must ever find out. They must go on pretending that he is Ned's bastard.

Do you think this would have been better for Jon and Catelyn's relationship? Do you think Cat could have been trusted with this info? If so, how much info could she be trusted with? 